Situations Wanted
The unfolding story of polygamy in the United States

Arizona, Phoenix

Our names are Steve and Kara. I am 55 and Kara is 36. We live in Phoenix, AZ. We do not have any children living with us. Kara cannot have children any longer, yet wants to hear the patter of little feet around the house.

We are both self employed, and live a simple lifestyle. We believe in living on a cash basis. We do not belong to any organized religion. Instead we simply try to live by Yahweh’s commandments. We keep 7th day Sabbath and all of the Jewish Feasts.

We are survivalists, who believe that the government is our enemy. We believe in natural healing and try to eat only natural foods, though with the rapidly escalating costs of food and gas, this is becoming harder. We believe that America’s problems, while orchestrated by the global elite, are caused by our moral decay. This is the same moral decay that caused Yahweh to allow the kingdoms of Israel and Judah to go into captivity. Because of their decent into idolatry, the ten tribes of Judah are still scattered and forgotten. America, with its thirst for witchcraft and New Age religion has descended into this same idolatry. We recognize that this is a part of the latter stages of the end times that will result in the destruction of America.

We are seeking a female of a like mind who is looking for a family to join. Single mothers are particularly welcome.


You can email Steve at conspiracynut84@netzero.com

Belize, Central America

We're Brian and Jessica, writing from Belize, Central America. Jess is an artist and Brian is a writer. We recently moved to Belize and built a beautiful dream home in the jungle. Not long ago, and after much prayer, thought, and discussion, we broke with the LDS Church---primarily in the interest of pursuing a polygamist lifestyle. Now we are venturing about in search of a sister wife who may want to join our family. Jessica is 29 and childless. I am older, with grown children. We honestly yearn to find that special "someone" who will make us complete, ready to resume the adventure hand in hand...the three of us...equal and free. Seeking out websites such as yours had seemed the best way to fill the hole we feel in our lives---and God agrees. Naturally, we have traversed the Net to find like-minded people; but finding your site has been like finding a breath of fresh air. You are to be complemented on the tastefulness of what you have done here...and what you have to say. In the early days of the Web, Brian built sites for entire newspapers and magazines and built internet curriculum sites for universities. It is always gratifying to him to see how someone has found simple elegance in designing and advancing their ideas.

It was interesting to read of your correspondence with Don McKay. Long before Brian was able to consider polygamy as a viable pursuit, he used to visit with Don and "his" at 3coins.com. Don was a great inspiration to him. Don once posted something Brian said to him as the lead to his web site:

Polygamy is not about a man being a collector of women; it is about women, living together in love and sharing, as sisters and friends, being supported and upheld by a good and generous man whom they love and who loves them more than life itself. Polygamy is about love, not numbers---love defined by the innocence and trust of children.

This is our credo today and will be forever. We wish that the entire world understood such an idea. Even the world of polygamists, many of whom unfortunately fall short of this kind of ideal.

You can email Brian and Jessica at brianu77@yahoo.com.

California, San Francisco

I'm a 45 year old [look a lot younger....i think], 6', 180 lbs, single white male,
brown hair, brown eyes, Independent, looking for a woman 20's to early 40's
who would like to join together and find a sister wife.

I'm a welder / artist and build custom cars and bikes for a living. I was born in
utah and now live in San Francisco.

I have a lot of interests and like to stay active. I like the out doors, biking,
hiking, diving, camping, art, music, crafts, eating...? If you're interested
send an e-mail and we'll go from there! 
-- Brian (taylor-b@pacbell.net)

California, San Jose

Hi, My name is Sheryl and I live in San Jose, CA. I am 38 years old, unmarried and I have no children.

I have been looking on the internet and came across your blog. I am interested in seeking out a polygamist living situation. Please forgive me if I am not using the right language. I am not intending to be disrespectful.

I am hoping you can advise me on how to go about this. I do not have anyone else I can talk to. I have lived varied degrees of the lifestyle most of my life. I have a vast emptiness inside me that I feel can only be fulfilled by a family. Most of my family is deceased or scattered.

I am educated, intelligent, very-open minded, not jealous, loving, loyal, respectful, sexual, knowledgable, hard-working, moral, & ethical and most of all I believe in Jesus Christ.

Any information you can give me would be appreciated. I am open to relocating. I do have dogs and not willing to give them up. I have attached a few pictures so that you know I am for real and not wasting your time.

Thank you for your time
God Bless,
Sheryl      [You can reach Sheryl at  Sisterwife@Ymail.com]

California, Southern

I'm 35, 5'8", 245#, long blond hair, blue eyes, divorced, 10-year-old son, Controller of a Manufacturing company, super fun, very responsible and debt free.  I've been wanting to move from Southern California, I know this is not a safe place to live in these uncertain times.  I study and follow alternative medicine and don't see doctors.  I have prepared for the future with what my son and I call the "emergency room" - and distribute and share survivalist videos, bible prophecy and government "wake up" videos.  I would just love to have a family to share my life with and hopefully kids for my son to be a brother to (he adores children).  I know there's a lot of great catches like me out there but I can't seem to find them.  I'm pretty isolated down here in Southern California. 

You can email Sheri at sqldudette2002@yahoo.com.

Colorado, Fort Collins

Our names are John and Alisha. We live in Fort Collins, Colorado with our children. We have a family of 4 with one on the way. John is 33 and I am 29. We adopted our nieces about a year ago now and are so glad that they can be a part of our lives.

The Sister wife idea is a new one to us. We have talked about it for awhile now and have decided it is the correct path for us to take. We love kids and like the idea of a big family. Our family consists of Kayleigh (16), Tamra (14), Grace (8), Noah (2) and the baby on board (we just found out a couple weeks ago) is going to be a girl!! We also have a Doberman 'Dante' who will be a year old in October.

John is a regional manager and works very hard to provide for our family, I am a stay-at-home mom and enjoy every minute of it!! The oldest two girls have been with us now for almost a year and are doing very well in school. Kayleigh is a junior in high school and Tamra is in 9th grade. Grace is in 2nd grade. We decided to bring the girls home with us because their family life was basically non-existent.

My brother-in-law and their mother divorced and she remarried, then shortly after, her new husband passed away due to an infection around his heart. After that their mother had a nervous breakdown, got into drugs and could no longer take care of them. Instead of allowing them to go to a foster home we jumped at the chance to add them to our family.

We are all about being honest and upfront from the get go about everything. I guess I am personally very interested in having a sister-wife for the companionship, someone to talk to and just hang out with. Sometimes it gets lonely with John occasionally working long hours. He works hard but likes to play hard too.

We have alot of fun living so close to the mountains. W e like to go skiing\snowboarding, hiking, camping, biking and last summer we even attempted river-rafting! John likes to cook, he is very good at it!!!!! He likes photography, reading, martial arts ( he holds a black belt in Chinese Kenpo, and a brown belt in Taekwondo). Also likes to teach the kids martial arts. Grace really loves it!

John is going back to school to get his law degree. His goal is to become an attorney. I enjoy working out at the gym, swimming, playing with the kids, going for long walks, biking, and just being outdoors. It is so beautiful here in Colorado!!

You can reach John and Alisha at alishaandjohn@comcast.net.

Florida, Daytona Beach

Hi, my name is Matthew Hudson, and I am interested in meeting a lady that would like to travel around and meet polygynous families, take photos and write stories about them.  She needs to be kind hearted, willing to rough it on occasion, and fair minded.  Photography background would be cool, or a writing background would be nice as well but neither required.  I am serious, open minded, and care deeply about others, so those qualities would be most appreciated.
 
About me.  I am almost 6 foot tall, educated, and literate in computer, people, and cultures.  I am kind hearted, peaceful, even tempered, and but the only time my temper will flare is when I see someone else hurt or abused.  I am protective, but know when to back off and give space.  I believe in free will, 100%, in every situation where it is good... but also believe in total submission when the situation calls for it (danger is about the only time this comes into play).  I am trustworthy, reliable, and eager to open doors for any lady with me... be that doors for education, better living situations, or self exploration.  Women are treasures that develop over time with the right developer... they take form slowly and with much care, into the kind of woman that everyone speaks well of and the woman herself can be proud of.
 
I believe in structure.  I write about it, explore it, and understand it.  Where there is structure, arguments are few and far between.  Where there is structure, there is also a place of safety and security where both me and the lady know their responsibilities, and life is fulfilling and rich.  I make it sound like it is a rigid military thing, but in fact, it is simply a way to live in harmony and peace.... while reaping the rewards and satisfaction of knowing a job well done.
 
I am not a party animal, don't drink, don't smoke, have two cars, own my own house, and the respect in my community.  I am not given to anger, nor do I wish to be with someone that wants to fight all of the time... I tried that, it does not work.  If you feel your life is cold and lonely, being with me will be a shock.  I am outgoing, experience life in handfuls, and am very interested in outdoor things (except mosquitoes, well, also except fire ants, don't really like those two things... bears... don't like bears either, not if their hungry and I start to look good and crunchy...) well, anyway, I like nearly everything and am out in the world as often as I can.
 
I can't offer a bunch of money, although I do well enough, but I can offer a warm hug, good conversation, interesting and safe adventures, and the occasional nutty idea that turns out to be a blast.  Interested?

You can email Matthew at Gideons_trumpet@hotmail.com.

Indiana

Loving couple in Indiana seeking female for relationship.

He is 30, works full time at a great job. She is 28, stays at home with children. We love doing things outdoors when the weather is nice. She loves summertime bon fires. We like to drive or hike through the wilderness. She likes to collect unusual rocks, he likes to work on cars. We have 5 beautiful children, only 2 live with us.

We are looking for a loving female between 18 and 35, but age doesn't really matter. E-mail us for pics, or more info at fmcclain5375@comcast.net. We hope to hear from you soon.

Indiana

We are a married couple (he is 34, she is 29) looking for a 2nd wife to add to the family. We are both in successful careers and are open to our 2nd either working or staying at home. We enjoy gardening, shopping, and just spending time together. We are very family orientated and do not have any children at this time, but plan to have some in the future. We would be happy if our 2nd wants children too, but whatever she wants to do would be fine. If our 2nd is already a mother, we will treat her children as our own.

We live in Indiana, USA and are not able to relocate due to his job. If you are interested in joining a happy, casual, fun and loving family for a lifetime commitment - please write to us at: seekingsisterwife@yahoo.com
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Iowa

i'm mostly looking for people in my geographical area.  i like the idea of polygamy and the way life works, but it's very hard to find women in my area who are also interested.  i'm fairly young (22), about 175 pounds, blonde hair, blueish eyes and about 6'1.  i'm looking for woman who take this seriously and will actually be in this for the right reasons.  Age doesn't matter much to me.  I like thin woman, and woman who are happy with themselves and ready to be mothers.  I have  a very good, well-paid job.  If you're interested, please call me at 319 651-5040.  Please leave a message if i don't answer.  -- Curt

New York, New York City

Hi, I am a 26 year old college educated man looking for a co-wife. I live in New York, New York. The kind of "sister" wife I am interested in is a woman who wants to grow spiritually and glorify God in helping other people by using her talents or profession, whether it be a creative talent in designing, singing, teaching, preaching, or talent in facilitating, or simply helping me at times with the books and designs that I create and/or translate, or any other talent that she may have to share or discover. Also, it would be nice if she wants a good husband to love her and care for her, and desires that her husband be an extraordinary example of the love, care and compassion that our Lord Jesus Christ has shown us. She should be a woman who wants to get ahead in life, and who can dream and think with an open mind; yet be humble. I want her to pursue the career of her own dreams, or her her explore that area if she has not found herself. It would be nice if she knows, or is interested in, or is learning at least one of these languages in addition to English: Spanish, Modern Greek, Hebrew, Aramaic, Assyrian, or Arabic. The reason for this has to do with either reaching out to other people or helping other people or maybe I might take her on a trip with me.

My hobbies are singing, writing books and poetry, exercising. I also am a Bible teacher and translator. Also, I know Spanish and Modern Greek on an intermediate level, but I am not completely fluent yet. My goal is to use my language abilities to help people. I am very gentle and compassionate. I am sensitive and will always handle you with care. I am very honest and open. My wife is also college educated.
We do not plan to have children yet. In the end I would like to have raised a family with ease, and help you build your career goals, and have plenty of money and peace of mind with our children. I will never ever yell at you or abuse you or manipulate you. I am very honest and open and a very sweet person.

I think that the way I grew up without a father, and watching my other relatives be abandoned by their dads, has driven me to being honest with my wife and others about the idea of Christian/Bible Polygamy (or polygyny), and it has also drawn me with strong feelings about this social marriage option "under God."There is a lot more to say; however, I don't want to write another book. If you are shy or nervous about contacting me, I am too; so, just contact us. If you think you can agree with the principles laid out at http://www.biblepolygamy.com/, and you are approximately within my age range (20-28), and you love the Lord Jesus Christ, then feel free to contact me at YourFriendGenesis@gmail.com  Please contact only if you are a U.S. citizen or resident or have a green card. Thank you! God Bless You!

Texas, Austin

I'm a 42 year old male, wife 32. Religion-- we believe in God and go to church every once in a while. I'm a electric bench tech, my wife is in electric sales. My name is Lawrence and my wife is Felicy. We're looking for a second wife to make our family bigger, and feel that we would like someone to share everyday of family life with. We live in Austin ,Texas.

Lawrence and Felicy at boo32365@msn.com

Texas, Austin

Hi! We are Ronnie & Brandy from Austin, TX! We are new to the Austin area, having originated from West Texas, but we are loving it here! He is 35, I am 30. We have three beautiful children two in grade school and a sweet baby. He is in sales, I am a homemaker by choice. We are a close couple, and very good friends. We want our new sisterwife to find that same closeness and friendship!

We have a very broad range of interests within our family. Here are a few: fishing, camping, hiking, board games, video games, learning guitar, learning piano, poker, psychology, studying other religions, survivalist, home remodeling, gardening, lounging around, reading, visiting amusement parks, soccer, scrapbooking, photography, arts & crafts with kids, comedy. Music & movies are also a big part of our lives. We are still a bit addicted to entertainment! :-)

Recently, after much prayer, we decided that polygyny was for us! I know many are curious, so I will say that it was me (Brandy) who first thought of the idea. I saw all the practical benefits as well as the fact that it is in line with our Christian beliefs. Although both of us are Christians, we are not specifically pursuing polygamy for religious purposes. Both of us believe that we believers should strive to the highest Christian ideal, but that at the same time recognize that we often miss the mark and that is where grace comes in!!

We both believe strongly in commitment, respect and loyalty and that marriage is a sacred covenant before God that should be honored "Til death do us part." (Isn't it sad that phrase sounds so old-fashioned nowdays??) :-) Basically, we want polygamy for the same reason that many people get married - because they want someone else to share their life - for better or worse!!

Ronnie & Brandy can be contacted at: moonj69@yahoo.com
Or visit our MySpace at www.myspace.com/polyloveatx
Thanks & God Bless!

Tennessee, Chattanooga

We are a couple age 37 and 39. We have 3 children at home and have been married 22 yrs. Most of those monogamously. About 3 years ago we came very close to living the polygynous lifestyle. We had a friend that we spent so much time with and she lived with us for 8 months. She has been gone for 1 yr and we have decided it was time to find someone to share our life with. We live in a small town right outside Chattanooga, Tn. We would love to meet someone and develop a relationship. We realize it will take time. You can contact us at corlcde@yahoo.com  and we are on yahoo messenger. id- corlcde

Tennessee, Cookeville

I am a married 53 year old male my wife is 37, we have met and fell in love with a 23 year old woman. The 3 of us want a plural marriage and these two lovely ladies want to be sisters and the 3 of us want to share the rest of our lives together as husband and wife, I was wondering if you would be willing to help by answering a few questions?

We understand in america it is illegal to marry two women under the governments laws, but feel the government has no business telling us who we can or cannot love, we feel that god has placed us together and we want to share everything equally, with that being said here are the questions:

1. Where can we get married under gods eyes and not the government.
2. What are the vows we take and can you send copies of them to us.
3. We live in Cookeville, Tn. and do you know of anyone who can marry us by gods laws.

-- Dale, Melissa, and Tabatha at rosebud38544@yahoo.com

Texas, Houston

I'm 40 year old, independent film producer , white, single, short brown hair, blue eyes, attractive, 5'10", 190 pounds, healthy, work out at home, love the outdoors and traveling.  My hobbies are hiking, biking, and theater.  I enjoy watching auto racing.  I take pleasure in meeting new people, and hope to find a serious, committed polygamy relationship in the future. I am looking to start my own family and would like to start soon.
    
    I am not married, but I am looking for polygamy minded women.  I am willing to take women who already have children, but would ask to have children by me too!  There is nobody in my Christian church that is serious. I like Caucasian women that are the balance of beauty and brains. I feel that it is natural for a man to honor a woman’s goals, dreams, and more. In fact, I am a Southern Gentleman.
    
    I go to Christian church, work, and spend time with building a new business.  Kind of a new start, but I feel that now I am ready to meet people.  Maybe you know someone personally who is ready for a polygamy life, or seeking a new marriage, with hopes that a second wife will occur shortly!  I am looking for this near Houston, but would be willing to have other women come from other places! I am willing to relocate so long as it is in the southern USA. Again, if she has a child, then that is cool if she is willing to have children with me.

My email is david_tuna2002@yahoo.com.  Please contact me to exchange photos.
Love in Christ, David

Washington, Vancouver

My name is Brittany and I'm 18 years old. I'm in an interracial, polygamist relationship. My husband is Caucasian, my sister wife is Korean American and I'm African American.

The only other thing as odd as as our ethnicities is our ages. My husband's 49, my sister wife is 26, and I'm 18. We're definitely diverse, but we love each other all the same. We're a great big happy rainbow family and we're happy but not too many other polygamists we come in contact with are for us.

We just want to meet more people like us that are open. If you all don't mind, we're looking to start friendships with other accepting polygamists. Please write back.

You can reach Brittany by email.

Wisconsin

Clarice and I are looking for a second wife.  We live in Wisconsin and we have a huge new home.  Charles is an engineer and Clarice works from home.  Charles is mormon fundamentalist independent and Clarice is Catholic.  We have 5 children here.  We are open to more.

Write us at mannednet@yahoo.com for information or questions.  We have a good life and would like to expand the family more.

Clarice and Charles